We read three stories this morning about human connection. In the first, a 92 year old mathematician and a teenage girl connect through their passion for math (92 and 15 year old mathematicians); one where “Polar Bear” swimmers come together daily forming relationships that persist years and generations (Martha Vineyard Summer Experience) and finally, a feature on the heart-warming play, Come From Away that demonstrates the kindness and generosity of the community of Gander, Newfoundland who cared for airline passengers stranded by 9/11 (Enduring Art from 9/11). These stories are heart-warming – describing kindness and shared passions and interests. We are social beings, and thrive when we find a supportive, nurturing community or even just one kindred spirit.
We continue to operate our inn, emphasizing authentic hospitality. Returning from Canada last month, we experienced the trend we have commented on before: technology managing reservations, check-in, and check-out. At one national brand, the person “greeting” guests checking in made no eye contact and spoke fewer than 5 words as she handed us our keys. No other guests were at the counter. The shift to almost contact-less social interactions is eroding our very humanness. We are losing connection and direct communication with others characterized by caring.
September 15 marks our 46th anniversary of taking over Big River Lodge, now the Stanford Inn by the Sea. We enjoy meeting and talking with our guests, as does our staff. Over the years, we have loved the person-to-person base of true inn-keeping. You can always expect to see a smiling face to greet you.
This month, the return to school and routines also brings “fresh start” energy. We hope you feel that aliveness as you wake up to crisper mornings and shorter days. Happy Fall!
We hope to see you soon!
Joan & Jeff Stanford